I'm sure most sellers have gone through this at one point or another; Disputes on eBay.
Looking for advise on my current situation because I don't know what else to do at this point.
So, without further ado, here's the story:
Typically, if things don't sell on the forums, we put them up on eBay. I did this a little while ago. The shipping of an item to a buyer was delayed on my part and so it arrived a little later than it should have but not by much. Eventually, I received a private message from the buyer stating that he received the product (jersey) but was extremely disappointed in the shipping time. Now, to my benefit, my auction states that there will be a 3 day handling time prior to shipping. After showing proof that I had shipped the item, he decided to open up a Item not received dispute.
To all of those who are not aware of this, the very second the dispute is opened, PayPal automatically holds the total amount that the item sold for. Funny part about all of this is that he admitted that the jersey was in his possession prior to opening the dispute case. I immediately responded to the dispute by entering the USPS Tracking information. Here's the funny part... eBay was giving me 5 days to respond to the buyer and if this were to be ignored, they'd grant the buyer his money back(unfair because it seems that the buyer gets all the time in the world to reply but I don't). Ever since responding to the dispute with a USPS tracking number so that eBay could validate that the item was received, the buyer who opened the dispute has not responded. It has now been 28 days or so and it's still at a stand still. He refuses to close the dispute. He later messages me after I had submitted the tracking info to the dispute case and states that the jersey was physically received ( even though he had already claimed this prior to this case being opened ). At this point, he has acknowledged that the jersey is in his possession yet again and failed to respond to the case. It is safe to assume that he has left it open on purpose. At the moment, my PayPal account is locked until I pay the -80.00 balance on it or wait until the funds are released after the dispute is closed. It's really annoying seeing that I'm trying to close deals with a few members on this forum.
So far, I've called PayPal and they obviously don't deal with dispute claims over the phone. Also, I've messaged him twice... Once today, and another time a week ago, asking him to close this case.
I'm out of options. What do I do in this case? Hoping people out there has gone through the same situation as I have and have found ways to resolve this.